I was recently asked by a peer this following question: Sex Before Marriage or After? For some the answer can be obvious. AFTER! Some may not understand it though. I messaged her back my answer plainly as "after", but now I am going to give my reason behind my answer. And because I am noticing this question in many teen girls arise, I am sharing my answer with you all too. Here it goes:
Even if you are not a Christian you more than likely know who God is, but when you are His child you not only have the pleasure of really knowing Him but you also get to enjoy His body. You find peace in being Spiritually intimate with Him through prayer and bible study. You find joy when you fellowship with His body, the church. You enjoy His body in only a way His child, or BRIDE, the church, can. Do you get where I am going with this? Like I have said many times before, I believe many aspects of who God is and what He does are all examples of things we are to be and do on earth. I believe that as we can only enjoy God's body as His child and BRIDE...we can only enjoy our husband's body as his BRIDE as well. God's body is only for His BRIDE to enjoy, and the guys out there will soon enough be husbands and their bodies are only for their BRIDE to enjoy too.
I was blessed when finding out this information in a book, and if I remembered it's title or author I would share, but unfortunately I cannot.
http://www.youtube.com/watch#playnext=1&playnext_from=TL&videos=eg76tl57MaE&v=iPYDBVr4aJA
